OK, I'm just wondering your thoughts on this. Is it possible that you can truly love someone who you've known less than two months? I met my boyfriend two days before we started dating, and he told me he loved me... I believe him... But I'm not sure if its too early to know for sure, or if love at first sight is the real deal...
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its not something you can know or prove. its a feeling, there's no irrefutable evidence.. you just feel it and go with it & see what happens, are you dont.
love is a subjective thing. its up to you to decide when you feel it. no oner else can tell you if you are in love.
i think the closest thing I've felt to immediately being in love, is immediately feeling connected, & being able to see myself falling in love with him.
alot of times people feel a deep connection, & get to know someone later say it was love at fist sight.
other people think they dud fall in love at first interaction.
i think you can feel a type of love at first experience.. its a very strong feeling, that if you continue to nurture, turns into love,
i think you can meet someone and think. I will love this person, or this is someone I can fall in love with, or you know uh oh, I'm in trouble'
i don't think he's lying that that's how he feels. and time will tell if his feelings are serious and durable, or flippant, or capricious.
but, no reason to not just enjoy each other fir now, see where things go. you don't have to define a feeling, or even understand at at all..in order to feel it.
dont worry about if the feelings are real or imagined. feelings are feelings, you feel them.. just keep your head about you, & don't do anything dumb ;-)1