OK so the following is what I know about the situation and I'm just looking for your opinions on it.
My friend met this guy on vacation and he asked her out. Next thing I know she comes back an he's her "boyfriend". 2 weeks later I'm hanging out with my friend again, and she says how she an her "boyfriend" are having problems. I go on to find out that this guy is "in a relationship" with a different girl on Facebook. And it's linked to the persons account so obviously it's still on this other girls profile as well.
When my friend asked her "boyfriend" about it, he said she wa just a girl, and then didn't text her for 2 days, an didn't give a real explanation. But then 2 days later we hung out again an everything seemed cool with them, but I looked it up and this guy is still in a relationship with this other girl.
So, opinion on if my friend is being played? How I should handle this/ talk to her about it?
To make things more difficult, I also have feelings for this girl and need to tell her soon before she leaves for school *no I'm not just gonna forget about her.
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wow, that's some deep stuff !
well in my eyes YES I think she is getting played, I mean did they take the time to GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER? or was this like a 3 week thing and then hooking up ? because if that's SO, then he is just using her as a side plate.
Honestly if she really trusts you and believes you, just tell her that you feel that this guy is playing her and tell her the obvious, that 1. he is in another relationship and 2. he didn't seem to care to text her the 2 days they weren't talking and whatever else you know about the situation bring that up too.
but I hope this helped ! I tried my best to put myself in your shoes0