Because of this I'm really starting to despise even being around women.
They're always the first person in the room to bitch, moan, complain, nag, get upset over something.
It seems that guys are always really easy going. Unless its something super serious, we usually don't make a fuss out of it and we don't get upset. We just know its not worth throwing tantrum over. But the sh*t that girls can get their panties in a notch about is ridiculous.
A girl will get angry about stuff like putting the toilet paper on wrong, forgetting that thing she said 15min ago, forgetting one item at the store, not texting her enough, etc. I even had a girl jump down my throat once because I simply asked her too many time she was getting off of work so I could buy her a drink (she was a friend of mine who was a server).
The point is us guys never fight with each other, unless you're sleeping with our girlfriend or something. We just simply say, "no big deal, dont' worry about it man". I understand that things happen that piss you off or make you upset, but girls will throw fits like the world is coming to an end. It just seems when its just me and the guys, its quite, stress free, no nagging, no problems, no drama, but when the girls are around, someone is always pissed, upset, nagging, crying, etc. etc.
Girls when are you guys going to learn the calm down and stop getting so bent out of shape or stupid stuff that just really isn't worth it fighting about, even if it does irk you a little bit. I swear, I think all you women need to start smoking pot or something, either that or invent the chill pill.
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Youre bitching quite a lot atm.
Maybe find don't spend time with people who are high strung, if its going to send you into a tizzy. That or you could chill out, even if they can't. That's what I do, when people freak out over, what seems to be nothing too important. Well, first I make sure it isn't actually important. We can overlook a persons position, fairly easily, not out f sound thinking, just out of laziness. Otherwise, I just relax, & am greatful, I don't have to freak out over every little thing. It must be very stressful, to get angry, so easily, over nothing. Provided, it really is, nothing.
Alot of times however, we think of other peoples complaints as insignificant, as a defense mechanism to
A. having to deal without ow and anger, we may be ashamed of.
B, Enabling is to dismiss our actual culpability in the matter.
Someone getting upset is either bothers us because we did something, or bothers s because we are already bothered, it generally doesn't bother someone who is actually 'chill'.
You do sound very angry. I would double check yourself, before assuming its because of other people &that those 'others' , are Woman.
Its very easy to blame other people fir your emotions. Its impossible to solve a problem, by blaming other people. You are always at least one, responsible party, to everything you experience.0