So, this girl that I've been talking to from a dating site gave me her Facebook name and we added each other. Unfortunately, her Facebook photos do not look like her online photos. I mean, not at all. Without going into too much detail, she managed to hide (very well) that she was actually quite a bit larger than her photos show. She also has terrible teeth which she also managed to hide.
Don't get me wrong, there is someone out there for everyone but I'm just not attracted to her, at all like I thought I may have been. She looks like a totally different person than I thought. And we haven't been talking long enough for me to really care about her personality. How do let her know I don't want to meet her or go on a date without hurting her feelings?
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Don't you hate that? I've had that happen in both ways either they were semi good looking so when it came to meeting them I'm not that enthusiastic, but hoping "please,please look better in person" and they actually do look better throwing me off my game lol or they have this one really good picture and you meet them and think to yourself "wow that was some angle you shot of yourself, what magical camera are you using and where can I buy one?" lol.
This situation is so hard but it's best to stop talking to her before you meet because she really is gonna feel like you didn't find her attractive in person etc since now going out your adding more things she thought she could of did wrong as far as behavior. I think since you guys haven't really established anything too serious yet and haven't met in person I think this is the one exception that you don't have to explain why you're no longer interested. She'll get over it faster than if you met her and changed your mind. I've had that happen and it always kind of stays with you a little cause you always wonder what you did wrong, "was it my hair?" "was their something in my teeth?" "did I say something weird?" it totally sucks.
It's nice you care, some (I'm saying some lol) guys don't even bother to consider the best option so no one gets hurt. Good for you :) xo0