please no love at first sight ...only if you have been married for 10 + years because usually that does happen. The only thing I feel is "like"...no love. is this normal? I thought love took time to develop. should I have very strong feelings right now?
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No two people are the same and no two relationships are the same either, so I don't think there's really any standard of where you "should" be after a month's time. Some people fall hard and fast, others take a really long time to open up.
Do you enjoy spending time with the person you're dating and want to continue spending time with them? Do you feel like you know who they are (what they value, what their personal goals are, what they enjoy doing) and do you feel like that information meshes well with who you are and what you want? Do you feel like you and your partner have bonded at all? If the answer is "yes" to these questions, then I'd say you're in pretty good shape after a month, regardless of whether love is part of the equation yet.3