About a month ago, I went on a youth group vacation. I did not know any of people. My group consisted of 3 guys (including myself) and 9 girls. I got interested in one of these girls. We talked a couple of times, but we never REALLY had a good conversation there. We both had to take a train home when the vacation was over. I wanted to ask her out on a date when I would leave the train. I did not ask het though. There were a LOT of people in the train and I had a really short time to ask it. But I digress. Now, a month later, I was thinking about the vacation and about her. I was thinking, what would happen if I would text her this:
I was thinking about you and I was wondering if you would want to go out with me someday.
Everyone of my group shared their numbers, so it is not weird that I have her number. I tried to talk to her on Facebook, like casual chat, but she is almost never online.
Here is what worries me, she told me that if a guy would "confess his love" to her over Facebook, that she would see that as a deal breaker (which is not strange at all). But would she think the same way when she gets a text from a guy she hasn't seen or heard from in an entire month?
What do you guys think?
Should I just go for it and see what happens?
These answers are great! You have really helped me ;)
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I think you should. You have nothing to lose, everything to win. Either she responds and it's great, or she doesn't and you can move on. Go for it! ;)1