hi I recently was advised to use a red flag list so I could screen any potential bfs, I've had to many bad relationships in the past and a friend suggested doing this. Can you please tell me what a red flag list is, does it really work and how do you use it?
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"Red flags" are signs, experiences in dating that you should take notice of since they point towards disastrous relationship qualities.
I'm sure you already have some too! It's just that gut feeling that something is wrong, the things you dislike in a man that you really want to avoid.
So it's not necessarily a written list, it's more of a mental checklist that you should be aware of so that you can quickly spot it and not waste your time or, hopefully not, put yourself in potential danger.
Hope this helps clear things up about red flags!2