Is it normal to be 18 and never having a boyfriend/being with a guy? I've always been a shy girl and I don't really go out or talk much as I should... I'm terrible with guys, I can't really flirt (and as you can probably see my self esteem and self confidence levels aren't exactly through the roof)... Also, I'm not really pretty.
Still, I'm a nice girl, I'm smart, I always treat people well and I've been interested in a couple of guys but they never give me a chance.
What do you think is wrong with me? What should I change in me? Men scare the crap out of me and I'm never able to make the first move, or to even get them interested... I've haven't even had my first kiss!
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It's perfectly normal, yes. And in my opinion, ideal.
The majority of relationships that start in high school, don't last. Because you're not emotionally mature enough at that age to handle the responsibility of not only your own feelings, but someone else's as well.
Just go with the flow for now, if you find someone, great. If you don't find someone until you're 25, that's awesome too. Being in a relationship should not be what you strive for, because you're more likely to settle for someone who won't treat you nearly as well as you deserve to be treated.