I'm leaving for university in a few weeks, and my boyfriend keeps making excuses to not come and see me. He usually comes to my place on the weekends, but lately it seems like he always has plans (and no there is nothing wrong with having plans with friends, it just seems to be all the time). He doesn't come see me any other time, and the past 3 weeks he won't come and see me.
Could this mean he wants to break up with me, because I'm leaving?
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It's possible. Obviously none of us can mind read, but I would think if you only had a limited time left with someone you cared about, you'd want to make the most of it and see that person as much as you could and stand by your commitments. It's possible he is trying to protect himself by not seeing you because it's too painful and he hasn't really been able to process fully that you are leaving and he is trying to mentally detach from you so it's not so bad when you actually do leave. In any event, since you are in a relationship, you need to have an honest direct conversation. It's best to do in person but if he keeps avoiding you, ask him straight and point blank what this is about and get answers to your questions, he owes you that much. Being flaky is irresponsible and disrespectful.1