Well when you're flirting with a girl and she asks you that question is it a sign you should organize something or is this not always the case and she's just trying to make conversation?
Yes. What are you doing this weekend often means are you free to spend time with me. But we'd never ask that straight, she's giving you an opportunity to ask her out. Most the time we never ask the question of what are you doing unless we want to know if you're free or not.
It could be either way
Either she's interested in you and she's sending you signals by asking ''what are you doing this weekend "
Either the conversation wasn't flowing enough so she asked you a question.
it means the person can't communicate openly and adequately. I don't know why people play these games. why conceal what you really mean when you could just straight up ask people out...
Not necessarily. It could be just a conversation starter.
Anytime I was asked that as a teenager or young adult, she was interested (I wasn't always). If you don't have some really concrete plans you can't change, you should tell her you don't know yet or make a joke about it, while saying, "What about you"?
That would be a hint enough for me to want to ask her what she's doing and organize something with her.
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Hell yes. She’s hoping you’d ask her out to do something together
Yeah, she's probably just making conversation.
A girl who asks what you are doing this weekend is not necessarily indicating that you should organize something with her.
Instead of assuming that she is interested in dating you, she may simply be trying to start a conversation or learn more about your interests and activities.
In general, it's important not to make assumptions about someone's intentions and to communicate clearly about your expectations and desires in a relationship or interaction.
Men need to be proactive in setting limits and making decisions that are in line with their personal goals and desires, without feeling obligated to please others.
From experience, I've always interpreted this as a hint. One, she wants to know if you're an interesting person and two, she wants to know if you're thinking of her. Its actually a clever question that tells a woman a lot about you. So guys, pick up the hint, think ahead and craft a smart response.
If you answer, "meh, nothing, probably hanging out at home and watching TV" or "doing DND with my buddies till 4am", unless she's into that sort of thing, dont be surprised if she becomes less interested in a date offer.
For the most part, but I'll beat around the bush with her until she asks me out because I like that shit lol. If a girl has gone to that point 9/10 she will go out of her way to make plans. If she's asking what you're doing that weekend within that context. If you merely said, "I was thinking of going to buffalo wild wings Friday. Nothing really set in stone yet. Why so?" that alone is enough opening for her to ask you out.
And honestly, after she went out of her way to ask it would be a little weird if she didn't follow up soon after to make plans, unless she was legitimately just curious. If that's the case you've lost nothing.
Who's to say she's flirtin'? Maybe she's just curious. What I will typically do is tell her what's up and follow it up with a
"pardon if I'm being forward but, you're welcome to come if you're not busy."
You're answerin her, tryin to include her and by givin her the option she can remain feelin comfortable with you. no pressure.
Aaannnndddd if you're smooth enough she won't be able to tell that you're tryin to see what she says, to determine her interest lolll again though, that's IF she's flirtin.
Go for it champ!
Short answer is YES.
How you might do it is a but more complex, but you should be able to handle it. If you know her and really DO like her, you could be on the bold side, be presumptive, and say, "I thought I was going to take you to the movies (or whatever)". If you don't know her too well, a gentler response could be, "I'm available. If there is something you'd like to do, maybe we could do it together." If you really don't know her at all but would like to, you could just say, "I'm free. Did you have something in mind?" and toss the ball back into her court.
I have a situation where I'm a friend of a girl, she has often asked me to take her to collect her stuff somewhere in town, I asked how much time will it take so I can plan at work, he responds was you can take half a day off if you want, i obliged took a half-day off once in town after picking up the stuff she asked me what was the days plan like? I was stuck as I didn't expect that question from a friend and she said never said I never given you time - seriously it was confusing as l have realised how tricky it is and I may have misinterpreted her words with how i feel and how I can ruin what we have,
what time she wants with me? as we always spent time together as friends
Not really.
It could just be a conversational thing. I ask people all the time what are their plans for the weekend or their vacation. This does not mean I want to date them.
Not every question or comment that people make has any romantic or sexual intention.
It can be either, your best bet is to say "I'm not sure yet, do you have any plans?" or somehting along those lines, if she does have plans then it's obvious she's just making conversation.
It probably means she wants to hang out with you if you’re free. But this is only true if she likes you that way.
no its not always the case when I say that to guys... I use it to make conversation...
Not always. a lot of the time I just ask that as a conversation starter.
Maybe, but it doesn't matter. You should just impromptu invite her to something unless you really do have something to do. Makes you seem more sociable and outgoing. If sshe's into you then she'll say yes.
With girls is always good to asume they like you untill they say they don't like you. If you see any opportunity to ask her out like this throw the dice bro
Not right away, you don't want to inconvenience yourself. just chat with her letting her know you'll be with friends this weekend. then ask what shell be doing.
It all boils down to if you had chemistry prior to that moment
its an opportunity to get an "exccuse" to get together.
Make sure you get a good one.
No, it's not. I ask my coworkers that all the time and I'm not interested in getting into the pants of any of them.
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