I'm stuck in a triangle. I liked this one guy, we'll call him Paul, and we ended up hooking up not too long ago. But before we hooked up I was introduced to his friend, we'll call him Kevin, and we really clicked. So far, I haven't hooked up with Paul again and I don't really plan to and I've kind of started talking to Kevin. I know that they're really good friends but I don't know what's going on here.
If you guys were in this position, would you still be interested in a girl that has hooked up with one of your friends? Is it a big deal or not a problem at all? Feedback would be great just so I can get a sense of what he might be thinking. Thanks!
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Been in this situation before where I was with a girl that hooked up with a friend of mine either before or after me. And I ALWAYS got compared. And that's actually not a fun feeling (even when you come out "on top").
Now you gonna tell me you won't compare. They all said that. But it's bound to happen.
But even if you somehow manage to not do that, he is still gonna feel compared. Think about it, all those questions of girls on here about feeling compared to models or even p*rn actresses. And those aren't even people in their life's. people feel compared. And they don't like it.0