How do I ask him to stop talking to me without sounding like a child?
I like a guy at work and he has really led me on, for reasons beyond my understanding. We are both 30 and have a pretty serious job (in a law firm). After weeks of flirting he finally asked me out and I was really happy we were moving forward since obviously I liked him, tremendously. But that was only to come the next day and have my intern happily confide in me that he had finally asked her for her number + a date (I knew she had a crush on him, never in a million years did I think she'd be his type). My blood was boiling. I don't need advice on what to do. I'm done with him. He knows I know about them and I'm sure he can tell I'm hurt. My problem is even though I ignore him, he continues to try to talk to me. I don't feel like being friendly to him, I don't feel like speaking to him AT ALL. Unfortunatelly, I have to see him all day long. Surprisingly we don't need to speak! (I have my cases, he has his). I want to tell him to just stop speaking to me (very doable, reapeat- it's a busy place, no one will notice, because we don't have to interact and everyone minds their own bussiness there). I just don't want to sound childish, regret it and end up with my ego further bruised. Any ideas how to tell him?
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