Women have it so much easier when it comes to dating: agree or disagree? (Page 2)
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I'd say ladies have it easier simply due to how males and females view dating and what they both expect, such as in general guys tend to look past minor things a lot of girls won't such as things like car,income,some minor body imperfection etc but its not exactly 'all' girls, I think girls have it easier because they usually have guys constantly orbiting them in their social sphere, guys tend to be more forward so girls can play them off till they get the one they deem right, they can do the whole chase me thing easier than guys can do it due to the more options for dating than guys. If you look at both sexes friend-zone group girls have a huge collection of loved up guys where as guys tend to have few loved up girls but that's due to guys seeing all friend-zoned girls as penis food and giving the girl some satisfaction as opposed to the friend-zoned guys, if that makes sense.
It's even worse if you are a disabled man. Most women reject a guy because he can't drive a car no matter what the reason. I almost got a date with someone who was MBTA accessible, but she insisted I have a car and I told her I can't get a license and she dumped me. Well, like I say on Facebook, Karma's a bitch and she'll get hers. Shallow women end up with bruisers for boyfriends.
Disagree to some extent. You are correct, if I want a date for one night, there's no issue, just have to find a guy desperate or drunk enough. But finding someone who isn't a player or a jerk is difficult.
As for worrying about a job, I do get to worry. There's many guys that don't understand what I do for a living and that makes dating very difficult. And then there's whole, you approach a guy, like him, he likes you and then you find out he just wants sex.
Also, while a guys have to do things right, to trigger her interest and then her attraction, women have be good at reading a guy. So a guy that is bad at dating gets no girl, a woman that is bad at dating gets fooled by bad guys... And there is the saying " is better to be alone than in bad company" so I think women don't have it easy.
And yes a woman could easily get sex, the problem is that sex is not to them as it is to us. They usually don't want to just hook up, they want a stable relationship.
And even when they want to have something casual they need a guy that knows what he is doing that also have a connection with her, even if just a tiny connection. They don't want to just have sex.
really men my friend men have it easier. this is why cause think about who dose the approaching planning f***ing etc. as of this point men are incontrol of the date game cause no matter how hot she is and what you look like women are raised up to wait for a man to come along a change there boring life.its the ugly truth cause do women propose to men. and this is not hate against women I love women all kinds, but lets face..it takes a lot of heart to approach with the chances of being broken in half but sometimes there's a good outcome to you just gotta work at it.now there are some girls who figure this out like me and use it to there advantage its sad but its the only way you get things in this world is with a good plan and the right words:)
let me explain why cause no matter what a girl dose or say a guys in control girls don't like it when there to much of this or to much of that they have principles which make them the weak link..men don't care for others and abuse any kind of situation which makes us that wild thing girls want. and of course girls have a choice but they over think everything which is how we rule
specifically how does approaching, pursuing, initiating, give one power, when women have the final say? women just have to accept or decline
and you are very right as well :) women sometimes have the final say but not all the time think of the ones in abusive relationships that want to go but the guy has hooks in them but I am always welcome to feedback :) thank and the funny thing is now I am in a relationship a good one finally and its alright not to much or to little like you say XD
i feel women ultimately do the choosing, even this guy admits it: link
the thing I relate to is your question and men have it easier because we don't gotta worry about anything but improvement women worry about everything everyday homie XD
I agree it is much easier for us. I also do some of the approaching and I have not been turned down yet, but I know I don't need to. I do it because I know guys are often afraid of being rejected so just because he hasn't approached me doesn't not mean he is not interested and I like being assertive. It feels good and like I have some control of the situation.
Anyone who disagrees is being delusional
There are definitely differences in terms of looks etc.
But the average girl compared to the average guy, yes has a much easier time dating
I beg to differ. Many girls gets rejected worse then men. Some go and have sex with a guy they think liked then WHAM they don't talk to them anymore. If a girl doesn't dress a certain way, act a certain way, or look a certain way guys won't even give her a second glance. Girls are more insecure about their bodies then men. Many women are always being looked down at jobs. We have a lot more problems then you think. Finding a date has to do with yourself and not the person you're trying to get with.
It all has to do with how you carry yourself. Yeah, sure, money and nice things may attract the hotties you may want to get with, but a girl who really knows who you are will like you for you and not what you got.
This ^ deserves a prize for the dumbest answer I've ever heard. Many girls gets rejected worse then men. Are you F'N serious? With this statement or anything you just said? OK so what your saying is even if I dress and smell like a bum, I'm still gonna attract women? LMFAO you know that ain't true. And FYI I've seen some ugly women with BF's.
no, we really don't. consider all the social stigma attached to us dating, add in the bullsh*t we have to put up with from men/ boys (yes I know guys have the same issues when it comes to women), then there is the maneuvering of the "sex games" . Frankly I am skeptical of the whole dating game - Too much drama, games, emotional backlash and unnecessary expectations that are very often broken.
I think that both genders are equal. Its seems to be harder to find that potential mate who would make a good husband or wife. Some of might had our heart broken too many times or had a traumatic experience where they we raped or molested some point of their lives
I think this is a case of the "grass is greener."
I think men and women may wrongfully perceive one gender has having an advantage over the other in the game of love. But in reality, we all struggle with issues that aren't always unique to our sex.
Everyone deals with rejection and the uncertainty of wooing those we find attractive. Don't kid yourself.
I'm not complaining I think I have it it easier.
Compared to all of the guys I think women mostly have it easier, but the thing is they stress out way too much. So It almost evens out cept not really.
Women can choose who to give there stupid p**** too... That's all there is to it.
yes, I'm tired of people using the argument "if a girl has a boyfriend, wouldn't it mean that guy has a girlfriend?" YES DUH! THAT IS TRUE!, but the guy had to do all or most of the work in order to get the girl, meanwhile the girl just had to welcome or deny advances, she didn't need social-skills or confidence.
But she needs to know how to judge guys. If not she is going to end with a douche bag banging her then not caring about her anymore, while she is left drwoning in the middele of her betrayed expectations that where created by his lies.
So its pretty much balanced
I guess I have a different perspective then you do, but still better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at alleven if the relationship was bad or negative at least the person experience to help prepare and train them to not make the same mistake again for future relationships in dating
Try falling for someone when he only wants your body. Maybe its easier to get a date for girls if she is pretty but love is hard to find for everyone.
Happens to me all the time.
How is it any different for a man? We also have to figure out, if she is just using us for attention or if she just like us as a "friend". Honestly I would take doing that sorting out, than to trying to impress somebody.
Its not any different from a man. I was pointing out that girls also go through feeling used by someone they really care about. Its really hard to find someone who would love you for who are. It doesn't matter if it is a male or female. It just seems like girls have it easier because they get approcated by guys for dates but that doesn't mean they won't get thrown out later
single guys looking to get laid have a worse chance of getting what they want a girl in the same situation... girls trying to maintain relationships, have it worse then guys trying to do the same thing ...
Good point.
what do you mean as in maintain? Girls get bored too and brake up.
Agreed^
Neither party has it easier. It's just that at times the grass looks greener on the other side
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Are you being serious it's just looks like that I wonder what makes you say that? that neither party has it easier?
No I do not agree...they merely have a different POV...do you worry about being raped or murdered?
Men are 71% of the murdered and the primary target for violence, muggings, thefts, etc. technically, if women should be consistently nervous about being sexually assaulted, men should be wearing straitjackets for mass paranoia.
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Agree with open close. They may worry about rape. I worry just as much, and probably more, about having to get in a fight for her.
do you get into fights every two minutes? a woman is raped every two minutes.
u have a choice and fighting (plenty of women can hold their own) or dating period. rape is not a choice.
do I get into a fight every two minutes? No. Do you get raped every two minutes? I bet there are way more chances a man getting in a fight during a night out than a woman being raped during her night out. Rape usually occurs with people the woman knows already. The average woman as less problem than the average guy when dating. Am I saying she won't get heartbroken etc? No. But the average guy won't even get a chance to be heart broken because he won't get in a relationship in the first place...
unless he puts in lots of effort, compared to the woman, to find a partner. And finally, this is the point of the question, women have to work way less to get a partner, hence, they have it easier in dating.
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yeah but we are murdered and such by other guys mostly, not by women.
However, women are harrassed, stalked, or worse yet by us guys, especially guys who are somehow interested in them.
@carlo dude: you are greatly diminishing how horrible an experience is rape. rape is several, several times worse than getting in a fight for a woman. I think rape is way worse even than murder, and only comparable to kidnap or systemic torture. (well, rape is a kind of torture)
And, quite frankly, I find it pretty disgusting to discuss rape statistics as if they were just numbers. In my opinion, a single rape is tragedy enough.
Sorry, I'm also an unatractive mysoginistic loser but this is too much even for me.
When young yes, when older, no.
This link really spells it out backed by data:
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i read it, a lot of it was implying that older women don't necessarily have it harder than older men do
Then you can't read. Older men have twice the interest that older women do.
Well it's sad that people don't believe this. It just means there are a bunch of men who, when they hit thirty, will be duped into marrying the first thirty year old woman that shows interest, even if there are far better options out there.
Nah. The guys I know at 30 are well aware of what they have.
Me? Married at 23.
In a way it is easier for beautiful women to piggyback off of a successful man's back and have an easy life then vice verse but men are still stronger, more direct when it comes to thinking, more boisterous, stubborn in good ways (also in bad ways), dominating, leading, adventurous. Now most women don't like to admit that guys have it harder in life but when on average men die younger than women it's hard to argue.
women do have it easier...they can get sex whenever they want..men not so much