You can do one of two things. Look at it as if she didn't ask you for a second date that it didn't go good. OR you can just be a man and stop playing games wondering about time and just call. A woman likes a guy who goes for what he wants and view it like this. She can see you not calling as playing games and perhaps think you aren't interested and move on.
Now if you text & she says thanks for the date but I'd like to be friends than cool. As for what you should say try "Hi how are you?" you'll be amazed. Let things flow don't try and think things through. Maybe see if the convo builds up and if you want ask her once she replies.
5 days minimum! No joke...not kidding! All the other guys text her...be different..and call her on the phone. Setup the next date. Waiting 5 days will clue you in to how much she likes you and if she has a good attitude. AKA...if she's worth your time. Good luck man.
After a first date , how long should you wait before calling/texting ?
In my opinion as long as you want.
at's the ideal amount of time I should wait before texting her ?
Depends on the gal. Some like to be called immediately the same or next day otherwise they think he's not that interested or they lose interest. Some like to be called a few days after otherwise they think he's desperate or a future stalker.
Also what should I say when I text her ?
Probably best suited to tell her that you enjoyed the date then ask her out on another one.
Honestly,
when I say this I want all the guys to hear
that
THERE IS NO 3 DAY RULE TO CALL/TEXT BACK!
I'd say the least would be a few hours after your date
you can comment on how the day went
whatever you guys talked on the date about you can restate in the text
"if you hadn't told me today about ur. . . I wouldn't have known!" etc.
There's no rule that you should wait a certain amount of time before texting/calling. If you wanna see her again, text her that you're in for a second date.
You could text her today, asking her how she's been in the meantime and if she's up for a second date.
Don't worry about the "rules", as long as you're not a stalker, I'd say go for it!
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I don't think it really matters how soon you text her, but I wouldn't wait longer than a few days. Just say you had a nice time and would like to do it again sometime. See what she suggests.
The fact that you're concerned about what she'll think and to whether she'll validate you will be/already has been conveyed in your use of spoken/body language.
Let go of the outcome.
no waiting, no games, just follow your d***, really. give her the choice as a woman to say yes or no.
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