I have been dating this guy for 6 years on off. When I am with him I feel like he gets me and he is pretty much my best friend. But...I started having a crush on this guy about 5 months ago. He goes to the same college as me, but I haven't seen him over the summer at all. He lives in a different state. I did text him once over the summer and he responded and kept the convo up for 2 hours, but I don't know if he is interested. I thought for sure that this crush would be over by the end of the summer since I haven't seen him, but it makes me miss him more! I really do love my boyfriend but this crush makes me question my feelings for him. Should I text the guy again or would this be a bad idea? And if this has ever happened to anyone else what did you do?
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It's relatively understandable that you've developed feelings for someone else, especially if the relationships been on and off for a few years; that being said, you need to be honest with your boyfriend about your feelings; it's not fair to either of you to keep it in the dark. You stated that with no contact with the other man, you missed him more..what do you think would happen if you started conversing with him again?0