About 20 min before the date, he texted me saying he ran some errands with his grandmother and wouldn't be able to make it. I was upset as I had just left my house, he cancelled and it was via text (no call). I told him "that's too bad, but thanks for the heads up" to which he asked if we could meet up after my softball games (I told him ahead of time that I was playing that night). Knowing I'd be gross, sweaty and out late, I said "i won't be able to, but thanks anyway" to which he said "Oh, ok." I ended with "maybe another time" since I knew I sounded like a bitch. This was two days ago and I have yet to hear from him.
I'm just wondering if I should initiate convo with him? Is he even into me to cancel 20 min before without updating me throughout the day? I had no idea he was busy during the day. He initiated everything, so I'm surprised he hasn't reconnected. Was I too harsh in my response and that's why he's kept himself at bay?
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