Okay, I'm heading off to college in two days and I'm leaving my girlfriend behind. We're still going to be together because my college is only two hours away and coming home on the weekends is fairly easy. Why am I so scared of losing her? She's homeschooled as well. Please help me. I don't want to constantly have the fear of losing her because it adds tension onto the relationship. I want us to work out. I know we can actually. I just need some ideas from people who know what they're talking about.
Please don't give me that LDR's don't work out bs. They do.
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Some LDR's work, some don't, depends on the people in it and the effort they're willing to make to maintain your relationship. I bet she's scared of losing you too. You're going to a new place, meeting new people, meeting new girls, ... you know. I doubt she'll feel comfortable at first.
It's just a while you'll feel weird and scared of losing each other.
You're leaving in two days, just make it the best two days together, go off to college and maintain contact. There aren't any tricks and tips to stop certain feelings.
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