Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for like 3 months, last night she gets a text at around 1am, she says it's her friend "Dillion" from work, I told her I don't like men texting her phone this late at night, I say this because men call for booty calls this late and it's really starting to piss me off. she says he's just a coworker who call when he's drunk and lonely and needs women advice. she said "you have nothing to worry about in fact the first thing he asked was how is your relationship doing" I said he was prob hoping you'd say not good so he can squeeze in. she said no he's not like that and blah blah blah. she knew him before we where dating. so my question is should I be on the look out for this a**hole or just listen to her and let it go.
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I have to say I think you're completely right. Calling someone at 1am while drunk asking for "relationship advice" seems very inappropriate by itself, never mind if he has other intentions. I think this guy is clearly showing signs that he likes your girlfriend, but she probably doesn't feel the same so tells you not to worry. Should you worry? No, probably not. If you confront her about it again she'll start to think you're insecure. So relax, this guy can want your girlfriend all he wants, she's yours :)1