So I met this girl through a friend we hung out in a group a couple of times and went on two dates, but during our second date I told her about how my friends and I rated all the girls in the group. This didn’t seem like a big deal and our date continued nicely, but the next day when I called her she told me she want to just be friends because I'm shallow(because I rated her friends). Since then she has ignored me and won’t talk to me even though I have tried a couple of times. I need to show her I wasn’t trying to be mean by rating them anyone know some good ways to show her and her friends I'm sorry. I was thinking to send them all flowers, but I don’t know their addresses.
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Learn what to talk about with your broskis and what to talk about with your date! Dissing a girl's friends never works well -- guys sometimes think that telling a girl that her friends are ugly will make her feel special, but it really doesn't work that way. It makes her think that you only care about her for looks, no matter how many times you try to prove otherwise. It'd be like a girl saying, "I like you more than your friends because you earn more and I'd love to get my hands on that money!" If that isn't a red flag to you -- you need to raise your criteria!
Chances are, a girl who doesn't give you a chance after pulling a single red flag, however, isn't really interested anyway. Most people will use a "wait and see" attitude if they were really interested beforehand, but people who aren't so interested will use it as to move you out of the "wait and see" category into the "pass on" category.0