My boyfriend stopped talking to me for 9 days and yesterday morning at long-last I got this text from him, I have no idea what to feel, I want to cling on to any sense of hope, I want to stay with him more than I could ever want anything in this world..
'Sorry for the long period of idleness. It's just that I've been thinking about us and all that. I just don't feel sure if it'll work out and if maybe we should just stop fooling ourselves. I love you, Jess, however I'm not quite sure if our relationship can work out given our circumstances.
Maybe it could work out, maybe it's better if we start viewing each other as friends or just stop all of this and carry on.. I don't know.
What I know is that I'll never find a person who feels as right as you..
I love you, Jessica and I just want the best for you.'
What does he mean by 'stop all of this and carry on', carry on with what, from where we left off? I have no idea.
Any thoughts, opinions, advice etc?
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I agree with what's being said by the others BUT I find it terrible how he thinks he can say such serious stuff over an sms! C'mon guys this isn't fifth grade, we're not ten year olds! Considering it's a long distance thing well at least have the decency to call or Skype. This is sad you need to talk about it and get the closure you need. Sounds like he's tired of the relationship not you so don't take it personally:) chin up,this sucks but at least he's honest. It may hurt now but talk it over and see how it goes. You'll be happy with him or someone else soon enough! Not that we can't be happy on our own too:)0