I was wondering what do you think are good methods for breaking out of bad habits, behavioral and emotional patterns?
What I mean by behavioral pattern is an aggregate of all behavior s that you repeat over and over.
What I mean by emotional pattern is much the same as a behavioral pattern but more from the mental scope, eg. thoughts and emotions that you repeatedly indulge in.
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What works best for me, is to first find out where things go wrong (eg why and under which circumstances you have your 'weak moments' etc.) Then I picture myself as the person I would be if I succeed in changing whatever the problem is. Take your time in this phase, it's really important to have a clear view of your goal!
Then I like to set a date for the start of the 'changing process', and if possible a kind of 'deadline' to live towards as well! Another tip that works really well for me: I like to make my decision on forehand, so that you can simply stick to that instead of having to think about it at crucial moments, increasing the risk of making the bad 'weak' choice! Hope this helps you a little bit ;)