right so I live in a country where having sex before marriage is considered bad. but recently more and more people are doing it and its slowly becoming a normal thing. so anyway, I'm going out with this guy and we make out a lot and what not. the thing is his hands tend to wander... a lot! usually I'm fine with it but SOMETIMES, when it goes too far I place his hands back on my waist or something and we both laugh and continue. he doesn't seem annoyed when I do it he just smiles and sometimes says sorry. so if you were MY boyfriend, how would you react to this? would you break up with me or be bothered with this?
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What is too far? Is it that he is advancing beyond the "base" you want to stay on or is it mood or situation? If he wants more intimacy than you are willing to grant then he has a decision to make. If you are being discreet or the situation is awkward but grand access sometimes under the right circumstances, explain it to him. If you are in a lengthy committed relationship, the way he will feel loved is through sexual intimacy...an orgasm one way or another. If you can't provide this and someone else will, your relationship is at risk. Romance doesn't last long for guys.1