She's still cute obviously but I'm not as interested anymore cause I doubt she's in it for anything serious, and I'm not into things that don't really mean anything. But the thing is, she's still a pretty chill person to be with. Would it be awkward if I straight up asked if we could just be friends? Like, just hang out as friends, nothing more.
The most we've done is kiss, by the way. But I think she's just into me for something fun but not really going anywhere. Almost as if it's FWB.
- Yeah, tell her in personVote A
- It's okay to tell her over text or phoneVote B
- Don't tell her (too awkward/unnecessary), and just let the friends thing happen on its ownVote C
- Don't even be friends with her - just move onVote D
- OtherVote E
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I couldn't vote. It depends on the outcome you want.
A would be most polite, but perhaps too clingy, unless she wants something more.
B would give off the air of informality or 'it's not really that important to me' but might establish what she really wants and where you really stand.
If you want to teach her a lesson, do C. find some other girl to make out with and watch her flip sh*t. tell her she has no right, because you aren't in a relationship with her. then it's her move.
D seems a bit too drastic. If you wish to cut her out, slow it down first. Unless, of course, you want drama. And she would definitely notice you unless this is a practice she does often,
E, well, there are so many other options to explore. Personally, I'd see other people at the same time. Many girls have the habit of assuming, "If I wanted him, I could have him." You wanna get her attention? Break that cycle.0