Sooo here is the story...
I dated a girl for a year, pretty close, but she's little crazy lol but nothing out of control (maybe lol)
So I met her friend about halfway through our relationship, and really clicked with her.
So after I broke up with my girl, I met the friend out about a month later...and we've been chilling ever since. Bout 4 months and are really close, pretty much together.
But if my ex found out she would go crazy and flip out, and try to ruin this girls life
We want to be together, but can we ever? don't know what to do..makes me so mad!
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Your best bet is to come clean, the sooner its out in the open the sooner you will see what may or may not happen and the sooner people may get over it. My opinion is for you, not the girl, to go to her and explain what happend. As crazy as it is girls are always more calm/less emotional with the guy then she is with the girl. If you both go then she may feel like you are both throwing this at her all at once and flaunting your relationship at the same time. Explain to her that the breakup between the two of you had to do with you to and not this girl and tell her it wasn't until well after you broke up that you two started this relationship. If you make it about her and not about you and this new girl then the anger/hurt may be deflected from you and your new relationship and more directed at you two and what went wrong. I don't know if this will work but what I do know is the longer you two carry on without her knowing the worse its going to be once she finds out.0