Iv been dating my girlfriend for over a month now we text allot seen each other twice, she has been acting weird for about 5 days and last night I finally got told why, so a week ago wen we saw each other I said something along the lines of loving her ..She never clicked until a few days after and I properly said I loved her and she said it back and how we feel witch was awesome for a few days, but basically me saying that has brought some feelings back for her ex witch she hasn't seen in a year, she said she doesn't know if she loves me any more but she isn't breaking up with me and she does genuinely really like me,I'm really f***ed up about this, this is my first relationship witch she knows but I really need some help please? Anymore info needed ask please ?
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Maybe she felt it was a bit too soon to say the L word and she said it back because she didn't wanna be rude? I'm not saying it's like that but it's a possiblity.
What I would do is give him an ultimatum: let me know if we have a future or if you're willing to work on it (but what's there to work on when the feelings aren't there?). Liking someone isn't enough for a good solid relationship between lovers.
I'd say: give her an ultimatum to let you know how she feels and what she wants, because you can't stay in this insecurity for a long time, this is horrible and you won't get it out of your mind until you know the deal.
It's like she's holding you with her just in case if she starts to feel something anytime soon. That's not a reason to stay together.0