So I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month now. We don't live in the same city-- we're about an hour apart. When we first started seeing each other we'd text all the time, all day. We've hung out a couple times and enjoyed each others' company (or at least I thought it was that way) and we've said we should do it again. He's the busiest person I know though-- he has three jobs! and it's hard to find time to hang out with him. I tried once last week and he bailed on me at the last minute. Anyway texting is getting old, fast. Recently we've been texting less and less. The last time I talked to him I asked him if we were ever going to hang out and where we stood and he gave me a vague answer like: someday we will I just don't know when. Lately I've noticed I've been initiating our texting conversations but even so he texts me back all the time, we have a good conversations and he seems genuinely interested in what I have to say. However I decided to put him to a test and I haven't texted him in four days. He hasn't texted me either. I want to ask him what's up, like if I should give up and move on or if we're actually gonna have something? I haven't fallen for him yet, but he seems like a nice guy. I know he's not playing me. Should I just straight up ask him, should I keep initiating conversation and trying to set up dates, or should I just stop contacting him and see if he makes an effort?
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u can ask him what's up, but after a while it just kinda feels pointless to text your girl after a while because you got nothing to talk about. I find it kinda annoying when a gir texts me but has nothing to really say. I don't wanna say yall are falling out but you never know, sorry this wasn't more helpful, hope it works out, good luck0