We had discussed having sex before meeting and both knew it would probably just be a "hook up." So we had sex the first time we met in person, and he was extremely affectionate and sensual the whole time. We ended up watching a movie and hanging out for the entire day. afterward, he wasn't texting me as much as he had before we had sex. I've been going through A LOT and was so stressed in every area of my life that I told him I didn't think we should talk anymore because I didn't want to get hurt (the comment was completely from left field). He said "oh...ok..." Of course within the next day or two I rescinded the comment and apologized for being "crazy." We laughed it off but I heard from him much less and only when I initiated it. I told him to let me know if he wanted to hang out last weekend and he never responded. I know I acted crazy, but I want a chance to prove that I'm not and I was just in bad circumstances and acted kinda looney. Can I salvage ANYTHING, even just a second chance with this man? If so, how?
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If you both went into it knowing it was only a FWB situation, the odds are he's assuming that's all you wanted and he probably doesn't want anything serious himself. If you want something serious, why not just hit him with a direct question, like was it only a one time thing? At least you'll know your answer for sure, no games, no bullsh*t0