Do you think it is a positive or negative thing to have dated many people before settling down with "the one" ? What are the pros and cons of having many partners?
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I think most guys will view it as a con (whatever the guy views as "many partners"). This fact will be portrayed as a combination of the below:
*she dated a lot of guys because she's insecure/manipulative and wants the attention, or is "afraid of being single"
*she has low moral/ethical/character/personality standards for the guys she dates (therefore why there are so many failed dating prospects)
*she had a "bad boy" addiction and I need to stay away from her cauz she's not a long-term love prospect
*she's a gold-digger that dated guys for his money or strings him along for her enjoyment or for the "perks"
*she cheated on her boyfriends (as in more than one cheating-tainted relationship) in the past (not necessarily sex, but "emotional cheating" as in pursuing interest with other guys while having a bf)
And the most important of all:
***** she doesn't have the mental maturity and relationship qualities (communication, trustworthiness, compassion, physical/emotional support, intimacy, etc.) to be in a serious relationship *****