I am just curious when using dating sites what's grabs your attention the most. What info do you look for. What messages do you respond too. There are so many guys out there how can I stand out and at least get a chance
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I've been on a dating site for 2 months now (once back in April and again more recently). I tend to look into the eyes of the guys photograph to see if I can trust him and if he looks genuine. I read his profile to see if he can write English well and spell (to exclude scammers). I never respond to general messages sent out - delete them straight away. I will respond to a personal message as honestly as possible to show that I'm genuine.
I believe if you demonstrate that you are really you and not trying to be someone else, then you will find the genuine woman. However, be warned there are heaps of young girl scammers out there trying to get your money and they will play you. You must be mindful and not give away too much too early. Sometimes its a sad world and you really have to tread carefully.
I've met a few guys off the dating site I'm on (I'm from Australia) - I've had a 50/50 success rate. 2 are genuine lovely guys, just not for me and 2 were terrible, not anyone I would want to meet again.0