I've been texting back and forth with this guy and I initiate a lot. I'm assuming he is interested because he calls me to talk and spends time with me. The thing is I actually hate talking on the phone and I have never called him first before- will this cause him to lose interest?
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No. In fact, rumor has it that it's quite the opposite. If you let him initiate, he feels like you're more valuable and makes more of an effort. Some guys like 1/2 and 1/2 -- so if you call every fifth/eighth time, for example, he feels like you feel the same way about him.0