Dilemma: You already have plans. But you're interested. Best response to the Gent?
If a guy you just met last weekend asks you out tonight, but you have plans, for all the guys who over-analyze text messages, what does a girl say or not say if she is still interested? I hate over-analyzing but guys I accept as dates almost always seem to misinterpret what I say in such circumstances. Here are my potential choices (note: already texted the first):
a) Hey (name), I'd love to but I already have plans tonight. Another night?
b) Hey! That'd be fun, but I'm already meeting with a friend tonight! Maybe this weekend?
c) Hey (name), I'm actually meeting with a friend tonight, what about Friday?
d) (your suggestion here)
To me, A. sounds like I'm not interested (even though I am), or could be playing games (even though I'm not). B. sounds like me the most, but I could be over-analyzing in thinking some guys find it too "friend-like"/not feminine/un-sexy, and C. sounds like I'm taking away the guys reigns, in my opinion. Now guys (and girls), it's you're turn to over-analyze my possible responses! :) Thanks everyone!
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"Oh, sorry I have a previous engagement scheduled, can we please choose another time?" Or suggest a time that works for you.