Saturday we went to his ex girlfriends going away party for the navy. Me and my boyfriend always had the trust thing about not getting jealous. Monday morning he can't stop texting. He picks up his phone when he received messages right away except when I was cuddling with him or leaning on his shoulder. After awhile he preferred I didn't cuddle. As we were headed out today he realized he forgot his phone and asked me to get it. And against my own morals I checked his messages. He was asking the girl for sexy pictures. She said no because she knew he wasn't single. But he told her come on, at least your top half (her breasts are much larger than mine) I confronted him later when we got home. His excuse was it was a stupid question. I really don't want to leave him I love him and I know he still loves me. But I told him he can stay at his brothers tonight. I feel like I'm making a huge mistake
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You're not making a mistake.
No matter what, he was deceiving you. He was disrespecting you. He was disrespecting the other girl.
He may love you. Many here will tell you he's a cheater and he doesn't, but he may indeed love you. What is a fact is he does not respect you the way he should, and he either needs to learn how to do that or leave the relationship. He needs to find a way to earn back your trust. He has hurt you deeply, and he needs to make up for it.
How you go about this situation is your decision. I would advise you to essentially break up and see how he handles it, but this is your life. I don't have to deal with the consequences.0