I was having a hard time meeting guys my age on my own so I decided to do the online dating thing. I met some pretty cool guys here and there... One of them I have been seeing for over 3 weeks , he comes over, takes me out, invites me to hangout with him and his friends... He even cuddles and holds my hand while his friends are around.
The online dating thing is a bit tricky... I went out with someone else last night and had a decent time and at the end of our date he walked me to my door and kissed me...
I know I like the first guy more so now the questions is should I tell the first guy about the second guy kissing me or that I even went out with someone other then him?
Dating sucks for the record!
Thank you everyone for their input :)
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I know how you feel. I went through this when I met my now boyfriend. I think that unless you two have the exclusivity talk and make it known where you two stand (are you two in a relationship or not?) then he can't really get upset. You are still free to see other people. Especially if he is still active on the dating site. He is also probably exploring his options as well. But if you truly like this guy and have been seeing him for 3 weeks, I think it's time to have this talk with him.
I wouldn't mention it to him, as really what is it going to accomplish? You two weren't exclusive, and he is still online as well.
This is one of the problems with online dating. When do you have the talk? Well I think it's time to bring up where you two are going. Ask him how he feels about you, how does he see you?
Once you two figure out what page you are on you can decide where your relationship will go.1