I mean in my situation, would you want a girl you have interested but never really talked to kiss you by the lips and confess? Or you rather take the initiative, wait for a long time and whatever it happens... Is it too fierce? Would you be scared away? Would you immediately lose interest if you see the girl is so...( insert adj)
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I have absolutely no problem initiating this sort of thing, but I will admit that it is very nice every once in a while for the girl to initiate things. To answer your questions if this were me you were doing this to: No, I don't think it's too fierce; I wouldn't be scared away unless you acted insane afterwords; I wouldn't lose interest.
A couple of things to keep in mind, though:
1) Do this in the reverse order. Confess to him FIRST that you like him, and depending on his response, then kiss him if you feel like it. The kissing part could either work or backfire heavily depending on his personality. If he's more introverted and shy, it might overpower him and push him away...whereas if the guy is more extroverted he might take it a lot better.
2) How do you have interest if you haven't really talked? Sure you're attracted to him, but what do you know about his character? I would probably talk to him a bit more before you do any of this...I think the kiss would mean a lot more if you two were already having some chemistry0
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