Like there is this girl and she was really putting me on a pedestal, and I liked her. So I asked her out and it went well. Now the problem is that I need her to understand that I'm not desperate and to see my power. Should I be marginally negligent, or what... I can't reveal that I want to set the potential for something serious right? Or else Ill take away bad boy charm mystery and tension?
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There has to be a balance. Girls don't like guys who don't pay them any mind. We don't like the chase as much as guys do. However, you shouldn't smother her because that might freak her out. Find a place in the middle where she knows that you're into her but also that she can have a life without you. But if you're having trouble doing this, err on the side of smothering.2