sorry if this sounds horrible. I know I'm not good looking (don't give me all that work on yoru self-esteem sh*t) never get asked out, and I know I'm not really pretty. Tried fixing my hair, skin all that sh*t not working :(
I do have friends, get friend-zoned when I approach guys all that.
so girls that know what I mean, and you rate yourself like a 3 or 4 or below let me know how do you date, thanks.
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Look here is the deal, and I know this sounds like some of the esteem business you were talking about, however I'm not one of those guys that is all hung up on looks, as I don't exactly think I look like George Clooney or Brad Pitt myself. What I'm trying to say is I always try and find the attractive qualities in a woman regardless of what is typically believed to be attractive. I have been with women who would normally be considered unattractive, and I was always able to see what was under the surface. My thoughts are if you can accept me for the way I am, then I can certainly do the same for you. Additionally when I was growing up I spent a lot of time around my Mother who was very vain, and critical of other women, trying to criticize them to make herself feel better for her insecurities, so I started to take a closer look at her targets of ridicule and determined that, one looks are not that important, and two everybody deserves love, so it is my policy to get to know someone before I make snap judgements on what is or isn't attractive. I hope this helps you some, and just remember that who you are is far more important than what you look like.1