Girls would you cuddle with a guy you didn't like?

I really like this girl and I hung out with her over the summer, and I'm the only guy she hung out with alone. If I came over to her house, or if she came over to mine, we would usually watch a movie, and we always cuddled. She would always put her head on my chest and and then wrap her arm around my waist. I'm wondering if girls do this with guys they don't like? I know she doesn't do this with any other guy, but I want to know if she likes me more than a friend. I'm going to tell her I like her soon, but I still would like to know the answer to this question lol


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Her doing those things is a clear sign that she trusts you, and she likes you, but romantically is another story, girls tend to do this with guy friends that they think of like brothers too. so pay attention to other things like when your sitting next to each other, does she angle herself toward you or aslways leaning close? Does she rub your chest, hand, arms without really realizing it when she has her arms around you, or when or if you hold hands? when she looks at you does it seem like she's staring soul deep then quickly looking away before returning hers back to urs? We kinda also tend to figit, like play with our hair or something of the sort. Some girls will even figure out ways to alaways be touching the guy we like, to try to get his attention. if you haven't really paid attention or noticed anything like this here's an idea. Next time your watching a movie and your cuddling there on the couch or wherever, kiss her on her head or cheek, but try to be smooth about it, and see what her reaction is. If she gives you a smile or that soulful look, the chance is your good to go. Hope this helps.. good luck

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    • like she sometime rubs my chest with her hand, and I'm usually stroking her back or holding her hand and playing with her fingers, and she never really resists, so that's good right? also thanks for answering!

    • yes exactly like that, lol. I'd say go for it, I do this to my guy all the time I don't know why but I can't keep my hands off him. not in a sexual kinda way lol, but he's standing I have to rub his back, laying beside me I have to touch his face, lips, chest. sitting too. his arms and hands. I'm always tracing little circles on him to. :) its just our way of holding on to you, we don't want to let you go.

What Girls Said 14

  • No. Particularly since my divorce I really do feel either "hot" or "cold" about specific guys. I either feel the vibe and follow it to its natural conclusion or I feel a strong physical revulsion (possibly because something about him reminds me of my ex...go figure). The trick is to find an acceptable candidate (nice/gentleman, honest, funny, attractive, etc.) who is within a reasonable geographic distance for cuddling. Sigh...

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  • I would never cuddle if I was not interested romantically in the guy. However, some girls are extra touchy and huggy (not me).

    Though in a way I see it as an invitation for you to take the next step. Brush her earlobe gently with your lips and see how she reacts when you two cuddle again. Its sexy and suggestive but noninvasive and if she reacts possitively to it you can kiss her.

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  • I'd have to be incredibly comfortable with the guy. I do have a guy friend, however, who I used to do that with. Probably still would, too, if he lived closer. He was my first crush, but he thought of me as the sister he never had. Even after I moved on, we still were super cuddly O_o

    My main love language, though, is touch. I'm like that with most people I'm comfortable with.

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  • no. why would i? lol. oh oh oh oh okay..yeah I might. because I hate him buht <3 him at the same time. so yeah I guess I would until the hate started comming back lol

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  • I have to like the guy to cuddle him, its kind of an intimate act. Good luck with telling her how you feel, keep us updated :)

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  • NO. id feel sick. its hard for me to be intimate period. if I'm going to make the effort, I'm not wasting it on a friend who would feel like a brother, who I would not be 'cuddling' with.

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  • Never. I couldn't get into it. But I know some girls who will just because they like the attention or they just need a guy around to feel good

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  • A guy I don't like would be consider a stranger or a friend to me. So, in other words... No, I won't cuddle with a guy I didn't like. That's too weird and cuddling isn't all that great anyway.

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  • I would Not cuddle with some I didn't like and if she doesn't like you and is cuddling with you then you need to stop it and not let her lead you on that mean

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  • Speaking for myself , I would not cuddle to someone I don't like. First , because I don't want to be misunderstood. and second, because I don't want to hurt the guy if he eventually would like me. Since she crossed the line, I think she likes you.

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  • No...If I see him as a friend, I wouldn't even touch the guy if it was unecessary

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  • No. It would b hard for me too cuddle with a guy I did like

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  • No, I don't cuddle with guys I don't like.

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  • No I wouldn't want to lead them on .

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What Guys Said 2

  • I am inclined to believe few women today would cuddle with a guy they don't like. THAT is an act of intimacy, and unlike sex acts today, cuddling is reserved for those you want to be intimate with.

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  • Many do - you'd THINK they'd like the guy in question, but in a pinch - any male body will suffice.

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