I'm a ginger, and all my guy friends love teasing me about having no soul. The guy I like does it too, maybe more than the other 3 guys. Usually I joke about it with them because they can be really funny, but I'm starting to feel insecure because I don't know if the guy I like would like me because of my hair color. It's quite orange, and I don't think he would think of marrying a ginger because of the risk of having ginger kids... He didn't say that, and his teasing has never been mean enough to hurt my feelings but I've been wondering. He loves talking to me and loves my personality, but I don't think I'm his "type".
He has said before that he thinks my eyes are pretty cool (and that he's jealous of them lol...) but has never complimented my hair color. I love my hair color sometimes and hate it other times but I am too much of a chicken to dye it (all my hairdressers in the past have told me never to dye it, and my girl friends have said that too).
He's always dated brunette girls- if you were a brunette guy and always dated brunette girls, would you even consider a ginger girl? Or just keep her around as a good friend because you like her personality but wouldn't want to marry her because you might have ginger kids? Or do you guys even think about what your future kids would look like? Lol
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of course I would. Sometimes guys try to gain control or have the ball in their court by lowerin self esteem...making it evident that something is not of their liking. Even if its not his FAVORITE hair color, their are so many variables in a girl that he will always find something he doesn't prefer in anyone in the world.
The "im not his or her type feeling" is one of the most common out there. And "type" EVOLVES. Your confidence WILL make you his type. I've had girls say that before me they didn't like guys with my hairstyle, and now they love it. So yes, be confident, and when you are confronted with the jokes that might make you a little uncomfortable, strike back with your own confident jokes about how "ginger" could be sexier, that gingers are the "select few". Brainwash him ;)