I asked a girl out and we set a date and everything, but...she doesn't seem too excited about it. She's either been playing it extremely cool in person or she's lost interest because now she doesn't talk or even look at me anymore. She used to come up to me and bump me and touch me and stuff, but not since I asked her out. But the date's still on...I texted her the other day and it's gonna happen. Is there a point in still going on the date if she's not even excited? I mean...I don't want to "convince" or "force" someone to go out with me if they don't want to, I'm worth more than that.
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It could be anything.
It could be something has upset her in her personal life. It could be she's really stressed about something.
Or you could be right, she could have lost interest. After all, she's getting what she wants, maybe she enjoyed the chase.
I'd still take her out. You gave her the opportunity to pull out by texting her and she said no, let's still go. That implies there is still some interest there. Take her out, show her a good time, and try not to let this 'not excited' issue upset you. Just smile, laugh, enjoy yourself, be yourself, be engaging, and it'll go great. Update us how the date went and we'll try and help further :)0
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