my boyfriend of 2 and a half years and I met on an online dating site, we have a one year old together and have been living together for the whole relationship. we have gone through some tuff times a few months back, and just lastnight my mother called me to inform me she had saw him on a dating site, when I asked him about it he told me it was a few months ago and he doesn't even really remember doing it, I am a very giving woman, but I just don't know if I can forgive this, doesn't seem like he is ever happy. what should I do? id like to keep my boyfriend, but it feels like he's just bringing me down.. HELP
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That's the most common excuse in the book for a guy who just doesn't care anymore. When he puts up a dating site, sends an inappropriate text/message to a girl, or some other variation of near cheating and gives a bullsh*t excuse like "I don't remember" or "it was nothing" or "I don't know why," be warned it's a big deal. He had his hand caught in the cookie jar, he doesn't have a good excuse because it means EXACTLY what you think it means, and he doesn't even care enough at this point to make it up to you.
I'd leave him. Let him remember how tough it is out there to find a good girl who really cares about him. Guys sometimes get lazy in relationships and think they could be out screwing 10's everynight. Then they're single and remember the 6 month dry spells, and horrible first dates with dull women. Keep the guy who knows he's lucky when he has you.0