So I met this awesome girl over the summer and we had a lot of fun hanging out together. We've hooked up most of the summer and she wouldn't stop texting me when we first got back to university (not complaining, but just giving a little info). All of a sudden she stops texting as much and now it feels like every time I want to talk to her, I'm initiating it. We have a lot of mutual friends and she asked them how I felt about her. I don't really talk about us in front of them so they just assumed I didn't care and that's what they told her. She stopped talking to me for a bit and from what her friends told me resigned herself to get back with her ex boyfriend who she broke up with because of me. I found out about it and talked to her and now we talk more often, but not like how it used to be. I fb messaged her the other day to hang out but its been two days and she still hasn't responded. What should I do from here? Is she playing hard to get? How long should I wait to talk to her again? Thanks in advance!
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Dude...you need to stop messing around. You sent her a fb message asking to "hang out". Really?Forget the hanging out...thats what friends,and kids who are dating do. You need to man up, and take her out on real dates. Go have a good time. She's probably been waiting for you to show some maturity and ask her out on a date. Call her on the phone! You're killin me!
She's not playing hard to get...she's just waiting for you to get a clue...and then start acting like you have a clue.0