I have this boyfriend who claims he isn't using me, but he never text or call me anymore, except for Sundays when he has time to see me for like 2 hours and then he wants sex. Really nice right? is this a joke? why not spend at least 8 hours with me on Sunday and text and call me when we don't see each other. I have text him to see if he text me but it hasn't happend that he is the first to text anymore. Not the latest weeks.
He has many signs of the boyfriend who just uses you for sex. I feel its like 60/40% chance he is using me. I have learned from my exnarcissistic husband that some people are people of the lie and can be sociopaths. With no remorse using other as they want. So they lie and do not feel bad about wrecking others lives.
I am not dumb or blind to his seemingly indifferent behavior. We all know that even a guy is busy it doesn't take a lot of effort to text or call the women you are suppose to care about, to show her you think about her.
So don't you think too that he is using me?
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looks like 70/30 to me... seems like he's really asking you out only for sex... Even if he's busy, he should have replied you at a later time instead of totally ignoring it. Even friends reply messeages, he's your boyfriend.
Probably good if you could talk to him nicely but directly about it? Like if there's any other thing both of you could do instead of just having sex every time you meet.0
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