I went on one date with this guy that I really liked. He told me he couldn't see me this weekend but texted me in the morning and said he had fun and wants to see me again next week for sure. To be honest, I'm not a huge texter and the fact that he mentioned that he wants to see me next week shows me that he's interested. I agreed to it but is he suppose to feel reassured from me? Should I go out of my way to text him today or tomorrow and ask how his weekend went? How his hockey game went today? I don't really want to because it was only one date (and I don't want to sound needy) but my fear is that he'll lose interest in me - Yes, even after he said he would see me, I'm sorry - I don't trust all guys.
What am I suppose to do so I can really know that he'll ask me out on that second date? Or just wait?
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Ok, this is really simple. He told you he wanted to see you again and you've made plans right? So, this is what happens:
A: He meant what he said and you'll see him next week
B: He didn't mean what he said, and he won't call you again
Either way, you know if he is actually interested or not. I would wait to text if it's only been one date. Give him a few days to think about you and the opportunity to look forward to your next meeting. He can't do that if you're hounding his teli. Do you have a specific day set? If you do, and you really feel the need to send a text, a day or two before your planned meeting, simply send him a message saying, "Hey how was your week? Just wanted to confirm that we are still on for tomorrow night?" That way, he's had his space, you've had yours, he knows you're still interested and he'll respond accordingly (call you and confirm or not call you (and confirm no interest). Don't waste your time overanalyzing what is going on in a guys mind. More often than not if you are patient and pay attention, his words and actions will reveal his intentions. :)1