i don't know if you call it being moody or something else but I've this problem where I don't really seem to enjoy when a guy I'm dating is really sweet all the time and being all lovey dovey.. I enjoy having fun or more productive kind of conversations on various topics but when the guy only acts sweet and lovey dovey all the time it kinda puts me off, I'm going through the same thing rite now with the guy I'm dating and it just feels weird. is it normal to feel this way or do I've some issues? lol and what could be the reason?
btw this isn't the first time I have felt this way, it happened previously too and I kinda lost interest at some point, and I don't do this on purpose but I don't know why but it just happens!
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You're still immature. You don't like guys that care about you so just spend a few more years getting used until you wise up. =) The reality is you can date someone who is distant and doesn't really give a f*** about you. You'll probably think they are hot, that they are what you want, and you will work to get them and hold on to them, but they'll just think you are OK to pass the time... Your heart will get smash, shredded, burned, and stomped on if you let your feelings catch because they will leave you when they want something else. Just because a guy cares about you don't mean he won't stand up to you or lacks a backbone. It just means you are finally with someone who values you a little bit. In the start of a relationship guys will be unsure about a girl, then if they do actually like her feelings start to catch and they might be a little "weak" for a few months but they snap out of that little love spell as the relationship matures. Then you're left with a guy that will be a guy but still gives a damn about you. The question is, can you return that to him as well...1