I'm 18, and my boyfriend is 23. We've only just started dating, but we've been friends a long time.I was abused as a child, and I'm not that comfortable with the idea of kissing. I haven't told him about the abuse, but he knows that I'm not really comfortable with kissing. I said to him "Does it bother you if we don't kiss?" and he said "No, it doesn't bother me. If it happens naturally then that's OK, and if it doesn't happen then that's OK too". I told him that he should break up with me and find a girl he could kiss, but he didn't want to.
I find it strange that he would be OK with not kissing. Is this normal?
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