Let's say you had an incredible first date with a girl, text her two hours after it has ended. You talk over the course of a week and she suggests a second date, not ask you directly, but says she wants to go somewhere and it would be nice if you were there too. Does it give you a negative or positive view on the girl?
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Very positive. Guys can be very thick at times. They need to have the path pointed out to them very clearly. We may be wondering if she liked us, should we call her, what if she didn't like the date and says no (leading to a fear of rejection that was probably encountered asking her out the first time) and numerous other things our brains can think up.
Be direct about what you are thinking and feeling. Tell him that you enjoyed your first date, what you liked about it, how you would like to get to know him better, etc. This will help keep the date on a good level and moving on important things such as getting to know each other. It will also help you decide if he has the same thoughts / feelings. Or did he just think you have one of the finest butts he has ever seen. This will help you figure out his motivation if he agrees to a second date.
There is nothing wrong in the modern world of a girl asking the guy for a second date - and I am an older traditionalist who believes in chilvary. At the same time, if you know what you like, don't be afraid to check it out a bit further. No guts, no glory, no second date.
Good luck with it!