Me and a guy has been talking online for over 6 months, just casually...but he's been wanting to meet me for a while and possibly become something more. It took him a while for him to get me to agree to meeting him because I was afraid.
Well we agreed to go to the movies today, we met, got our tickets then as we were going into the screening room he said that he had to use the restroom...so like a fool, I picked out seats and waited for him to come back. I remembered that I needed to put my phone on silent, and that's when I realized that I had a text message from him, saying that there was an emergency and he had to go...I just wonder why he sent it in a text and not tell me in person. But I'm sure that it was an excuse to blow me off...Why would someone do that? It almost ruined the movie for me and now I feel depressed and hurt...I'll probably never know if there was actually an emergency or not...
(BTW...Frankenweenie was a really good movie)
Most Helpful Guy
Seems there was either no emergency or the emergency was so bad and urgent (in his mind) that he had to text you... but to be honest I think there was no emergency.
Now he may not have done it cruelly... he could have been really nervous (I get terrible social anxiety and I think some people can be sceptical about it, but there are people who get so nervous, nauseous the works).
But to be honest, he made it to the date, and all he had to do was sit in a dark screening room and enjoy the film. It's a pretty good place for a first date, especially for nervous people.
Maybe he isn't actually single? Maybe he changed his mind about cheating on a hypothetical someone else.
But then... maybe he's one of those insensitive guys who will ditch a girl all too willingfully for whatever reason ranging from (too boring/quiet, not putting out, doesn't seem like she'll put out, not as hot as I thought/expected). Sorry to be so up front about that but some guys will think like that. I'm sure you're not boring and for what it's worth I think you're pretty. At least you enjoyed the film, objectively.0
- Show AllShow Less