I have been dating this guy for about a month. He seemed very much into me and then last week he started to back up. I began to assume that he was messing around, but I didn't say anything because we have not established a relationship and I had no evidence. Then a guy friend of mine told me I should just ask him the question, "what is he looking for?" He said he was not looking for a relationship or to just hang out and kick. I then started to just not call him and ignore him. He began to text me and called me all day. I pretended like I was too busy, but I don't know what to do now. Can someone please enlighten me? I like him but I don't want to waste my time on someone who wants no more than just a booty call or a girl homey to kick it with. GUYS if you're out there please help!
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i had the same problem, with a guy that I was talking too, and basically you just have to get over him or just stick with it and be his friend untill he is ready for a relationship, and hopr by that point he has seen your potential as a girlfriend...I chose to just stick with it, and now I have a great friend to talk too, but I'm actually in a relationship with another guy, so there is no potential for me and him...and with the booty call aspect just tell him that your not looking to be his friend with benifits or his booty call but you would love to be friends if that's what he wants at this point...and if he can't accept that then he wouldn't have made a good friend or good boyfriend, because it seems like maybe he was looking for just sex0