(or hug first if that's the typical thing to do in your culture)
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Yes the date 1st which is a natural thing to do. But there could be other reasons than 'liking the friend better' to kiss / hug the friend 1st.
Your offense is justified in normal circumstances. But human minds may work in a way that is not always predictable to even self. Some open talk and ofcourse noticing future traits and trends will help.0