i am trying not to sound raciest but I met this nice black boy and we started dating and we have been for months my mom and whole family don't know about it. The reason they don't know is because my oldest brother(who died unfortunately) dated a black woman and when he brought her over for Christmas dinner my nana straight up said "Why the hell is a black woman in our house" and my mom and brother kinda would say the same thing I don't know what they would do but now I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO because the more and more I date him the more and more I am like I don't know if I could date him because of what my family would say he is also younger which my mom wouldn't like ugh this is so hard what should I do I mean should I just break it off since we been dating for like 2 months or should I keep it going without ever telling my parents or anyone in my family.
(also I get kinda nervous when I am like with him I keep thinking it would never work out between us and so many people would judge him if I said we were dating so I don' know what to do !)
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If you like the guy keep dating him. You already know the results.
I am with you with one exception. Is he a draug man? I am with your parents if your guy is walking around with his pants down. There is a big difference between a young Black man and a draug man who has no respect for God or society.
You will get caught so when you get caught, tell you family very politely, you have already seen the show.
You have people who will hate you if you were with him or not. Hate you for being pretty and hate you for being ugly. Live your life, dance to your own beat, love and be loved.